HELP! Someone I know is in a dangerous relationship–what should I do?
Weekly people ask what they can do to help someone else in a dangerous relationship. When violence is involved you should encourage her to seek LOCAL help through a domestic violence program or shelter. Someone long distance is not a help in those circumstances. You can take her to the police department and she can ask to speak to a female victim advocate and get a restraining order. Or she can go to a shelter and they will help her with that.
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Those who are currently ‘madly in love’ with him will not hear you. It’s best to preserve the relationship with her and keep the door of communication open so when she INEVITABLY starts doubting the relationship or has red flags you are on good enough terms to discuss it. THEN BUY HER THE BOOK. Don’t say I told you so. Just get her information and education. We also have mp3 downloads and CDs that cover the material as well.
Hope these suggestions help you help others….don’t forget we can bring our workshop to your community, you can start a Dangerous Man Support Group or become a Dangerous Relationship Coach so you can reach even MORE women.
